This life.....(II)

Its such a wonderful thing being alive and experiencing the adventures of life...some we plan to have,others we are forced to have and some just come to us unexpected and unplanned...but they all end up teaching us more about life and who we are....


What I've come to realize about life is that nobody knows it all,one person's experience is different from another person's experience...sometimes it could be the same experience but yet you learn a totally different lesson from what another person learned from the same experience.....

...And I've noticed that most people don't really know what they are gonna do in any situation until they are actually in it...all we say we are gonna do is just what we 'think' we'll do....


You'll find people discouraging you from doing something even when its not negative and when you later find them doing the same thing, they will shamelessly tell you they have a reason for doing it,like you didnt have a reason for doing it in the first place(funny right)....


Sometimes...iWonder if people think about how they would feel if they receive the negative treatment they dish out to others,or think of the effect of what they are doing to other people...I guess most times people don't think about this,as long as they are doing what they wanna do at a given time,its all good for them....people just don't care.....


Another thing I've also noticed is that "putting yourself first before anyone else" is the order of the century,everyone thinks of themselves first and sometimes giving no room for selflessness....


iTend to wonder if the impression of the fear of God we see in people really counts or if it makes a difference,because its perplexing to see folks we believe have the fear of God doing harmful things while the ones who are more in tune with the ways of the world have more compassion,in the end iThink its only God that knows who fears Him and who doesn't and our judgments on people shouldn't just be based on the outward perception alone.....


My Mantra is that "don't let any vice take away the virtue in you"+"look at the bright side of things,there's always a bright side"....which is why iThink no matter how (bad) an experience is, for me,it must never teach me a bad thing,for instance failure should not teach me not to try again....bumping into shady people shouldn't barr you from trusting others...iKnow it is hard,but it's one of the things that keep me going...


Talking about luck...as much as a lot of people don't believe in luck,it really does exist..you can call it Gods blessing or favor upon you if you want,eida way,it does come into play a lot and iFind it very true because I've been lucky a couple of times and iStill feel lucky to have and be a lot of things...(Alhamdulillah)


...With all the cliche bout love being a myth,iStill believe in it you know,iHear voices saying "yeah right"....well,I'm a firm believer in love and iBelieve its one of the most wonderful things in the world,but it can be bitter-sweet iMust say....some see the sweet side and say ou-la-la,while others experience the bitter side and vow NEVER to go on that road again...as for me,I'm a believer...and whether I'm in-Love ATM or not,is a write-up for another day ℓoℓz


Despite what life is,you can't say there is no good in it,there's still a lot to look up to,hope and live for in life....Your family,loved ones,friends,that dream come true,that miracle,those moments that take your breath away....you name it......


In the end,more education,more knowledge,more experiences and adventures still don't make life easier or any less complex....for me,iThink they only make it a lil more bearable....because the mirage life is will always remain that way....you never can tell....

This life...(II)


P.S
Here's a link to "This life....(Part I)"

http://www.naijastories.com/2010/04/this-life-3/comment-page-1/#comment-1480

With social networks who needs therapy...

Ever wondered why people are so addicted to social networks??? Well iThink the line between addiction and therapy is very thin....here's the thing...

Besides catching up with old friends or enjoying the company of new online friends,stalking,dating etc...there's more to social networking that meets the sites....

Therapy provides ways to express feelings, understand patterns of thinking, gain perspective on past and prevent events, set goals etc. Its basically a way of flushing out what's on your mind so you'll have clarity + sanity ℓoℓz(mental Detox) ...you can google up more about therapy.

When you're on a site, say facebook or twitter, you say what's on your mind(sometimes u just say silly or goofy stuff just fur the fun of it), but when you actually say what's on your mind, you open up in a way you don't open up in real life to your friends or family, because when you're talking in real life, you tend to hold back your real feelings or view about stuff cause u don't wanna be judged or sometimes you're just not in the mood to discuss with people who really know you; but online, you have this kinda freedom-to say your mind. You don't bother whether people respond to what you say or not: you're just expressing your feelings or thoughts...and when people respond or reply to what's on your mind, its like an added bonus. Some would comfort or be happy for you(depending on what u express), others would see reason with you and you'll feel sane or normal knowing there are people out there who feel the same as you do....some how, you'll find yourself relieved from the hurt or pain you're feeling once you say your thought online, and if its a wonderful feeling you're having then you'll still feel good sharing it with the world because sometimes keeping such a good feeling seems like its gonna consume you.

Now that's how therapy works sometimes....your therapist listens to you rant and then offers advice or ask you Questions. Little wonder lots of therapists are losing customers (patients iMean) to online communities...but iFind it a very interesting form of therapy.

Eida ways, when you use facebook, twitter etc for fun, addiction or stalking ℓoℓz, just have it at the back of ur mind that there are positive sides to networking and one of them is therapy.

Have fun with your online activities and keep it real.

QB

Officially blogging...:D

Aloha,

its official,Bee is finally blogging :D not sure of the way the whole blogging thing really works but iKnow its all about write ups,sharing ur ideas and all the writing fire works,so here i am....either way,iKnow its gonna be fun and interesting scribling and sharing my thoughts and ideas.

its not a blog about me,but a blog about looking at life and the world through my eyes...just follow the blog and ull Bee-dazzled...lolz

*cheers*